Archive for May, 2011
What you hear real music? Dr. James Jones suggests that listening is not true advise, inform or try to solve problems. Listening is just to hear what you have to say troubled teens. Parents often have a teenager with feedback comments are advisory to respond or not to accept in any way. These responses are similar ‘or close the conversation and does not promote further dialogue.
closed responses also “discount” from the other person.
open answers are much more productive way of communicating with a rebellious adolescent. These responses are not judgmental, and I do not suggestions or solutions. The answer is simply to accept what is said. These responses reflect both the content and the feelings of the child is in your project as a parent.
Set in the book to let children by Dr. James Jones, he gives an example of parent response closed and an example response of parents open.
Closed-parent reaction
Teenager:
My science teacher gave me a “C” on the science project. I can not believe it!
Parent:
First I told you to type, but you’ll never listen to you?
2nd Do not complain, we get what we deserved.
The third teacher is not unjust, what do you spoil this moment?
They are called “closed responses” because they fight effectively close communication between parents and adolescents. They are usually “put down” in the form of advice or criticism.
Open responses from parents
Teenager: I can not believe Mr. Green gave me a “C” on my science project after weeks on stupidity.
Parent: I think you’re very disappointed (feelings) only the opportunity to make a “C” with a lot of work. (Summary)
Teenager: In addition, he gave Don “A” because he had planned to Mr. Green suggested.
Parent: I right? You feel angry (feelings) because Mr. Green is unfair. (Summary)
Teenager: You should feel better! Anyway, I learned much of my project, it was really hard!
Parent: So, despite the disappointment (feelings) level, you’ll be happy (feeling) you put your project difficult? “(Content)
Teenager: Yeah! , I think I am, but I thought I would be an “A” for sure. Hey … What to eat?
Hark!
* When a troubled teenager asks you to listen and start giving advice, you have not done what they asked.
* If a teenager fight you to listen, and you start to tell him why he should not feel that way, you trample on his feelings.
* When a rebellious adolescent asks you to listen and you feel that something will not solve his problem, you must drop it, may seem strange.
* Listen! You hear that your teenager has asked, do not speak or simply listen.
* Advice is cheap, you can be the same Dear Abby and Billy Graham in the newspaper.
* Your teen may act for themselves. It is not defenseless. Maybe discouraged and frustrated, but not defenseless.
* If you do something for your teenager that he can do for you, you are contributing to his fear and weakness.
* But if you accept that the mere fact that your teen feels what he feels, whatever irrational, then you can stop trying to convince and understand about the company, was behind this irrational feeling . And if this is clear, the answers are clear and will not rely on consulting.
* So please listen and hear your teenager difficulties. And if you want to talk, wait a minute for your turn, and he’ll listen.
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Gossip-fans are everywhere, in all countries, in all cities on all continents. Since ancient times, people have just as gossip and rumors, they talk to their peers if they were not there. Celebrities were on the topics most gossip, accepted the list. Celebrity Gossip is news so often, it is clear that it is in human nature, leaders, people who stand out from the crowd, the notice period and dissect their words, their clothes, hair or behavior.
Celebrities like Paris Hilton or Britney Spears has made the front page of many international publications, and not just once. Some of famous people have suffered because of the paparazzi, and, in some cases they have even lost their lives due to prying eyes. Diana Princess is an example in this regard. She was killed in a car accident when she and her friend were chased by reporters scandal. Is this a human life is worth all this? I do not think so. But time can not be returned so that it avoids the time for the future of the head and try to such disasters from now on.
But who decides which celebrity makes the headlines and go almost unnoticed? If the media responsible? It is very difficult to say. Journalists, especially those tabloid magazines for a particular type of user’s posts. They look for things that are annoying or offensive, and many times they flush misery. Happiness is not new. The misery is. If a movie star has problems, we say it is stealing from supermarkets, which seems to be a hot topic for millions of people. You remember Winona Ryder, to help you hunt a single case of a star of the press for their supposed bad habits? How to steal from many other people in stores, and nobody cares? Too much, probably.
A simple explanation for the love of gossip, and the important place occupied in the people, “life is that most people live a dull, boring life, so they are looking for excitement in the lives of others. This explains the success of reality TV shows. Who would have thought that one day will come when millions of viewers each evening for an hour or seeing them as a group of people who eat, sleep or shower in a house where they are, as in prison, all the time in order camera.
Have you noticed how to enjoy the celebrity gossip Web sites, how many players have and how many comments they receive on each item? He shows great interest in the privacy of people who have succeeded, the desire to take samples, and throw the other side and show the ugly things of the good life of remarkable men. Like sex, drugs and rock and roll, celebrity sells. Everyone has dreamed at least once a great dancer hosewife or a famous singer or a Hollywood celebrity. Instead, it is here, at the age of 30 or 40, with the dishes and takes care of four to five children, the mess around the house and are like a nuclear bomb.
Here’s a question for you:
Why do people think mind control is “bad”?
shudder at the thought of mind control, because in the belief that to live a “free will”. They are afraid to believe they have no control. But the truth is that we never have complete control.
As the animals we have, we have lived, died and was developed on the basis, which gives us control. The control is important and essential to our survival, self-image and self esteem. But in many cases, control is an illusion.
There are different levels, the degree of control that we and the things within our control. And while we have no control in many areas, we often deny the fact that a passion.
Being able to control our thoughts and emotions is one of the hardest things anyone can do. But those who use to react to react as human beings and to control and manipulate this knowledge, we know all the time. This is why advertising is big business.
While Mind Control is an unpleasant fact, it is not “bad”, because human beings we want to control everything that will be an advantage Resort.
A factor in our development, how much more control, we are determined. Perhaps the next stage of evolution, namely that we are controlled and are always in a subtle influence on our knowledge.
How can we begin to grow if, instead of fighting against the fact that we are subjected to mind control, we accept it? This would be the difference between working at our borders must be understood and to deny it.
It is a fundamental difference between me and the PCT (paranoid conspiracy theorists). To me, we are subjected to mind control have created the fear is not fear.
To view the personal development of the species is the only thing you can do, know that people with mind control us all the time and try to be aware. We should also be aware that control most of mind that is running so well probably miss us, without even a warning.
At the individual level, we must also know what we control the mind to your advantage. This means that trying to be a human psychology and understanding of our personal psychology. Only then can we truly develop in the ever-present specter of Mind Control.
